http://yanfzhang.spaces.live.com/?_c11_BlogPart_BlogPart=blogview&_c=BlogPart&partqs=catFamilyen-USSun, 28 Sep 2008 18:51:58 GMTSun, 28 Sep 2008 18:51:58 GMTMicrosoft Spaces v1.1http://www.rssboard.org/rss-specification60http://yanfzhang.spaces.live.com/blog/feed.rssblogcategory-4064904034370645208yanfzhanghttp://yanfzhang.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!C7968F5149491328!257.entry<div> <p><font size=2><span style="font-family:宋体">家里自小不庆祝西方的节日</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">除了知道有元旦这个节日</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">其它得差不多是闻所未闻</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">母亲不知道母亲节</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">更不会过母亲节</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">自己感觉和她说这个也有点怪怪的</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">只好在这默默得对她说声</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>: </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">母亲节快乐</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>.</font></span></font> <p><font size=2><span style="font-family:宋体">母亲是典型的传统农村妇女</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">并且是其中的杰出代表</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">她一生都是先为别人着想</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">把她自己放到最后一位</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">我外公家里有六个儿女</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">母亲是老大</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">也是最聪明的一个</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">为了让我舅舅阿姨们上学</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">她小学二年级没念完就辍学回家干农活了</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">从我记忆开始</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">母亲总是很忙</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">早出晚归</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">干活里里外外都是一把好手</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">她从来都是任劳任怨</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>; </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">平常有家里什么好吃的</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">她总是留给其他人吃</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">吃饭的时候</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">好多时候她都吃上一餐剩下的</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>.</font></span></font> <p><font size=2><span style="font-family:宋体">父亲经常出门</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">记忆中我们兄弟姐妹四个主要是母亲带大的</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">很清晰的记得</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">父亲去隔壁村看电影或看戏</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">我母亲就在家哄我们</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>4</font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">个</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>; </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">有时候一起打扑克</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">我弟弟就由我母亲抱着</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>; </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">有时候就在灶堂前给我们讲故事</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">我们好像也很乖</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">很少吵吵闹闹</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">母亲虽然文化不高</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">教导给我们的做人准则一点不比</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>n</font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">多文化人差</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">她教育我们要礼让三分</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">我们自小到大很少和别人吵架</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>; </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">她教育我们有东西要大家共享</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">我们家里有吃的从没人抢</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>; </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">她教育我们要省吃俭用</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">小时候从不乱花钱</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>(</font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">不过没有零花钱</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span lang=EN-US style="font-family:Wingdings"><span style=""><font face=Wingdings>J</font></span></span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>), </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">……</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">她的话很平实</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">用简单的例子说出大道理</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span></font> <p><font size=2><span style="font-family:宋体">上初中后我就住校了</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">一开始是两周回家一次因为坐车麻烦</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">后来学会骑自行车后一周回家一次</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>; </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">高中差不多一个学期回家一次</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">而大学后一般是一年回家一次</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">平常也不打电话</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">直到来美国后打电话才渐渐多起来</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">达到现在的一周一次</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">虽然和母亲联系不多</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">但是我知道母亲一直在远方默默的挂念我们</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">对她来说</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">子女过的好就是她最大的心愿</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">最大的快乐</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>.</font></span></font> <p><font size=2><span style="font-family:宋体">我以有这样的母亲而骄傲</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>. </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">让我再次说声</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>:</font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">亲爱的母亲</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>, </font></span><span style="font-family:宋体">节日快乐</span><span lang=EN-US style=""><font face=Arial>!</font></span></font></div><img src="http://c.services.spaces.live.com/CollectionWebService/c.gif?cid=-4064904034370645208&page=RSS%3a+%e6%af%8d%e4%ba%b2%e8%8a%82%e5%bf%ab%e4%b9%90&referrer=" width="1px" height="1px" border="0" alt=""><img style="position:absolute" alt="" width="0px" height="0px" src="http://c.live.com/c.gif?NC=31263&amp;NA=1149&amp;PI=73329&amp;RF=&amp;DI=3919&amp;PS=85545&amp;TP=yanfzhang.spaces.live.com&amp;GT1=yanfzhang">http://yanfzhang.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!C7968F5149491328!257.entry#commenthttp://yanfzhang.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!C7968F5149491328!257.entrySun, 14 May 2006 14:19:32 GMT2blogentryblogentryBlog entryhttp://yanfzhang.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!C7968F5149491328!257/comments/feed.rsshttp://yanfzhang.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!C7968F5149491328!257.entry#comment2006-05-14T14:19:32Z